David Lerner Associates: Financial Equality in Marriage

David Lerner Associates: Financial Equality in Marriage

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Getting married is a very emotional moment. There is so much to do and organize that how you’re going to deal with your finances after you’re married is often not a major thought. However, once the honeymoon is over and you’re settling down to everyday life, this can become one of the most contentious aspects of a marriage.

This is especially true for women.  They are often the partner who spends time at home and earns less over the course of her career. And as women tend to live longer, they’re more likely to spend time alone later in life.

There are several ways financial inequality can cause problems: 

  • One spouse gives up working to care for the children and is reliant on the other partner for money. 
  • Only one partner has access to the credit cards or bank accounts.
  • One partner makes debt decisions without consulting the other spouse.
  • Spending habits are out of sync – one partner is frugal and sticks to the budget while the other spends freely. 

In order to achieve financial equality in a married relationship, economic power needs to be carefully balanced. Talk to your partner about these issues, so that you can resolve them.

Here are some areas that should be considered: 

Access to information. Both partners should have free access to information about their respective businesses, debt decisions, savings, assets, and employment. Make arrangements with outside financial parties such as banks and accountants, so that this data can be given to either spouse.

A joint family bank account. Set up an account which both partners can access for everyday family finances. Work out a budget together, and make sure there are sufficient funds in that account to cover those expenses.

Pay and pension contributions. If one spouse works in the home, he or she should get a share of the overall income and an equal contribution to a pension fund. This is especially important for a woman.

Investments. Investments should be decided on together. High-risk investments that could jeopardize the family assets should be made only if both parties are in full agreement.  

Putting these agreements in place before you get married can avoid many a conflict later on.



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David Lerner Associates does not provide tax or legal advice. The information presented here is not specific to any individual's personal circumstances. 



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Jake Mendlinger
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